Toxic Cooking Show
Misogyny, $800 first dates, simps, and high-value women: Social media has been busy cooking up and feeding us an addictive but toxic slurry of trends over the past few years. Here at The Toxic Cooking Show we're two friends dedicated to breaking down these trends, terms, and taunts into their simplest ingredients to understand where they came from and how they affect our lives. Join us each week as we ponder and discuss charged topics like personal responsibility and "not all men" before placing them on our magical Scale O' ToxicityAny comments or topics you want to hear about write to us at toxic@awesomelifeskills.com
Episodes
33 episodes
The Lowdown on Lovebombing
Unlock the secrets to identifying and navigating love bombing, a manipulative tactic prevalent in modern relationships, with Lindsay McClain and licensed clinical social worker Christopher Patchet, LCSW. Gain insights into how excessive attenti...
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Episode 33
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38:45
The Art of Friendzone and Honest Dating Conversations
What if being 'just friends' could lead to hilariously awkward situations and surprising insights about modern dating? Join me, Lindsay McClain, along with the insightful Christopher Patchet, LCSW, as we unravel the tangled web of the 'Friend Z...
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Episode 32
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37:41
Rethinking "Boy Moms" and "Girl Dads"
What if the labels "boy mom" and "girl dad" are doing more harm than good? On the latest episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, Lindsay McClain and co-host Christopher Patchet, LCSW, peel back the layers of these seemingly innocent titles to reveal...
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Episode 31
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49:45
Explosive Expectations: Unpacking the Gender Reveal Phenomenon
What if the grand spectacle of gender reveal parties is more than just a harmless celebration? Join us on the Toxic Cooking Show as we dissect this modern phenomenon, born in the late 2000s and fueled by the social media frenzy. From quaint cak...
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Episode 30
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53:43
Only Fans, Emotions, and Finances
Is your online life taking over your real-world connections? Join Lindsay McClane and me, Christopher Patchet LCSW, as we tackle the complex dynamics of digital interactions, spotlighting platforms like OnlyFans and the nuanced responsibilities...
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Episode 28
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48:10
Onlyfans
Can you imagine a world where a single platform can redefine personal finance and online presence while navigating the tumultuous waters of digital relationships? Our latest episode promises to unravel the complex tapestry of OnlyFans, tracing ...
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Episode 27
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47:55
Unmasking the Tactics of Negging: Navigating Manipulation in Relationships
Discover the insidious tactics of negging and how they can quietly poison social interactions, as Lindsay McClain and Christopher Patchet, LCSW, unpacks this sneaky form of manipulation. We promise you'll walk away with a sharper understanding ...
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Episode 26
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35:10
The Psychology Behind Mixed Signals and Romantic Boundaries
Ever wondered why the "nice guy" often finishes last in relationships? On this episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, we unravel the complex balance between safety and excitement that women seek from men. Through personal stories and professional i...
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Episode 26
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41:52
Decoding Deception: Navigating Ethics and Credibility in Online Mental Health
Unlock the secrets to discerning fact from fiction in the chaotic realm of online information! Join us as we sit down with Very Special Guest Leslie McClane, LPC, alongside our host Lindsay McClane and co-host Christopher Patchet, LCSW, for a c...
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59:17
Burnstock Part II Cruising to a Better Festival
Ever wondered how two music events could offer such contrasting experiences? This episode takes you deep into the chaos and communal spirit of music festivals. We start by recounting the horrifying events of Woodstock 99, where chaos reigned an...
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Episode 24
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39:43
From Peace and Love to Chaos: Unveiling the Dark History of Woodstock 99
How did a celebration of peace and love turn into a chaotic disaster? Join us on the Toxic Cooking Show as we uncover the turbulent history of Woodstock festivals, from the iconic Woodstock '69 that defined a generation with artists like Jimi H...
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Episode 23
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43:45
Cultural Norms and the Paralysis of Inaction
What would you do if you witnessed someone in distress in public? This episode of the Toxic Cooking Show challenges you to rethink everything you know about the bystander effect and personal responsibility. This week Lindsay McClane with my co-...
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Witnesses in Silence: The Dark Reality of the Bystander Effect
Why do people often stand by and do nothing during emergencies? Discover the unsettling truth behind the bystander effect, starting with the tragic and infamous Kitty Genovese case. We'll recount the chilling details of her 1964 murder and the ...
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Episode 20
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36:35
Beyond the Jackpot: Gender, Money, and Marital Fates
Why do women double their chances of divorce after winning the lottery, while men are 30% more likely to tie the knot?" Join us as we dig into the surprising and often overlooked effects of financial windfalls on relationships. We explore the s...
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56:18
Unpacking the Financial Strain on Women in the Workforce
Why do female-dominated fields often require advanced degrees yet offer starting salaries comparable to jobs needing less formal education? In this episode, we promise to uncover the deep-rooted gender disparities in career salaries by examinin...
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Episode 19
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28:16
Unveiling the "Bang Maids": Gender Roles and Toxic Relationships
Can traditional gender roles be the hidden root of toxic relationships?" On this thought-provoking episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, Lindsay McLean and Christopher Patchett, LCSW, wrap up their deep dive into toxic archetypes by shedding light...
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Episode 18
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45:40
Homemaking or Hatemaking: Unmasking the Trad Wife Agendas
Can the allure of a perfectly baked sourdough starter lead you into the clutches of far-right ideologies? On this episode of the Toxic Cooking Show, we navigate the seemingly wholesome world of the "trad wife" movement, a growing online trend t...
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Episode 17
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57:18
Dissecting the Cult of Controversial Influencers
This week we take a look at giving the spotlight to the "influencers" of social media that, despite having a message of toxic outlooks, continue to have a platform that only grows. We dive deep into Gypsy Rose, (no longer a doctor) Jordan Peter...
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Episode 16
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59:00
Who, what is a pick me girl, and why is it so toxic?
Have you ever caught yourself vying for attention in a way that makes you cringe in hindsight? Well, we've all been there, and this episode, Lindsay McLean, along with Christopher Patchet, are pulling back the curtain on the social labyrinth of...
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Episode 15
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41:34
Cracking the Code of Male Emotion
Have you ever witnessed the struggle many men face when it comes to sharing their deepest emotions, even with those they hold dear? This week we have a revelatory discussion that peels back the layers of why men often bottle up their feel...
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Episode 14
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51:50
Alpha Widows and the Quest for High-Status Love
Ever found yourself chuckling at the wisdom buried within Urban Dictionary? That's where we kick things off, unraveling the fabric of 'alpha widows' and 'hypergamy' with humor yet a keen eye on their serious repercussions on modern dating and s...
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Episode 13
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38:13
Forgotten Fuglies
Last week we talked about pretty privilege. This week we look at the total other end of the spectrum, the forgotten fuglies. Why are we, your lovely hosts, coining the term "the forgotten fuglies"? Well, apparently, unlike the pretty people tha...
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Episode 12
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1:02:29
Pretty Privilege
Pretty privilege brings nothing but advantages to someone who has conventional attractiveness, right? There are the advantages of free drinks, easier to find a partner. But, with pretty privilege comes the unprivileges of unwanted attention, an...
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Episode 11
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41:42